Why the Church Desperately Needs Violent Men

Leavened for at least the last 50 years by feminist ideology, the church in America is rapidly becoming like the world around it—Downy soft, hostile to the jackhammer of hard biblical truths, outraged by the sexual design of Genesis, doughy in its embrace of imposters, and uninhabitable for violent men.

It is for this reason that the church, even in Reformed, conservative circles, has given ground to identity politics, intersectionality, critical race theory, and LGBT Trojan horses. 

At the heart of the church’s softening is a not-so-subtle war on masculinity. From the Christian publishing industry to the pulpit, authentic masculinity is smeared with the toxic brush of feminism and told to keep out. Even so, there’s good biblical warrant for a revitalization of violent masculinity.  

First, a feminized church without masculinity is a soft target for deceivers and hustlers. 

It’s like a garden without a fence, a gun store without bars, a home without a front door, a guard dog without teeth. 

Absent masculinity, the church has become the kind of place that tolerates denominational presidents who say, with the Serpent from the garden, “Did God really say?” about very obvious issues like homosexuality and feminism in which God did in fact say pretty plainly. As Eve was prone to be deceived, so a church without masculinity is easy prey for the serpent-tongued. 

Men are wall builders, protectors and shepherds who are tasked by God with rightly dividing the truth and discerning the different species of wolf, pig, sheep, and goat present in the assembly. Men offer protection by opening the door for this one and showing that one out.  

Absent masculinity, the church tries to show the door to men like Andrew Dionne for standing up to the very clearly heretical teachings of Revoice (the greatest offense is always a harsh tone), but it is all-too-happy to welcome an effeminate soy-latte-sipping hipster lecturing on white guilt, reparations, and pronoun hospitality. Mmmm-kayyy. 

Lacking men with spines in their backs, the church will tolerate Beth Moore and her assault on Paul’s authoritative teaching as an apostle of Christ; what it won’t tolerate are men who rightly call for homosexuals to repent both of their practice and the effeminate attractions that lead to it. 

Second, the hard work of reform requires violent men. 

In a very dark epoch in which a hypocritical, self-serving, power-and-money-loving religious hierarchy obfuscated the message of salvation, Jesus pointed to John the Baptist as the man the church perhaps didn’t want, but needed. And this is what Jesus said John was like: 

From the days of John the Baptist until now the kingdom of heaven suffers violence, and violent men take it by force. (Matthew 11:12) 

Jesus said John wasn’t softmalakos (effeminate) but was hard. He was a man of holy violence, filled with zeal for God’s house just as Jesus was (Matt. 11:8). He was a hard man because he boldly called men to repentance. He was a wilderness warrior willing to die for the truth. He spared not the rulers or religious leaders, and for this was rewarded with a bloody beheading. 

John was commended by Christ as an example for a New Testament church that would face its own bloody martyrdom. Likewise, John is a continuation of the violent men applauded by Jesus that date back to the very beginning of history (Matt. 11:13-14) and continue through the apostles’ ministry.  

Elijah boldly defamed and mocked the idols of Baal. He stood up to a wicked king and ministered compassionately to widows. Phinehas drove a spear through the guts of an idolater. The Spirit-filled Samson waged bloody war against the Philistines, burning their fields with tail-tied foxes and tearing down their temple with his own brawny hands.

David, the man after God’s own heart, cut the head off a giant, slew his ten thousands, and killed bears and lions with his own fists. He was fiercely violent in both his aggression, his impassioned dance of worship, and his gentleness to the crippled outcasts. 

No doubt the American church today would label that kind of impassioned masculinity as toxic. And yet Jesus commends it and models it Himself. As it turns out, the heroic, masculine God of the Old Testament is not the villain of the New. 

Jesus fiercely, violently chastised the Pharisees (Matt. 23) and chased the money-grubbers from the temple with a whip He fashioned with His own hands. With holy zeal He wept over Jerusalem, showed compassion toward adulterers, and, in a final act of zealous masculinity, died on the Cross for His Bride. 

He offended, doubled down on teaching that drove people away (John 6), and was unrelenting in antagonizing the religious power brokers of the day. He rejected a crowd that wanted to crown Him king (John 6:15). 

The church today needs violent men willing to do the unpleasant work of reform, addressing the 3,000-pound golden calves in the room. It needs men willing to name names, point to specific sins, and denounce false teachers.

If reform is going to happen, it means men willing to sacrifice career, wealth, and prestigious positions for the purity of the church. 

In reformed circles it’s relatively easy to preach theologically sound messages about God’s sovereignty, limited atonement, or the Trinity without offending a soul. But if our preaching was like Christ’s, people would be trying to throw us off cliffs or accusing us of being demon possessed. What’s missing is the courage to speak plainly about the church’s pet sins. 

Third, the success of the kingdom depends not on nice or mild mannered men, but violent men.  

The call for violent men isn’t an urgent plea for wife beaters and abortion clinic bombers to enlist. It isn’t a request for ultra-combative Reformed Facebook commandos to go on dividing the church over tertiary issues like the time and mode of baptism.  

But it is a call for men to stop being so passive, polite, and non-combative about the essential truths of Scripture. Stop pandering, qualifying, dodging, and for the love of God, apologizing. Just stop it. 

If listening to J.D. Greear claim the church ought to defend LGBT rights or Russ Moore lend gushing approval to the Bible-dissing Beth Moore doesn’t turn your blood seven shades of rainbow flag red, there’s something wrong.  

It’s a call for men to engage in what Paul calls “the good fight” (1 Timothy 6:12). The tools of this warfare are the Sword of the Spirit, the razor sharp edge of the Word, the shield of faith, and the battle axe of prayer. The aim is the purity of the church and the holiness of its people. 

It’s not a plea for something new, but a return to something old. The old truths of Genesis that call men to be busted-knuckle workers and warrior-protectors with the broken backs and battle scars to prove they’ve been in the fight (Genesis 2:15). It’s the masculine work and warfare of cultural dominion.  

Men filled with the Spirit, rebuilding the ruins of family and culture and community with shovels and bricks in one hand and swords in the other, just like the men in Nehemiah’s day. Starting schools, serving in local churches, singing Christ-exalting carols in the downtown square for everyone to see. 

The church desperately needs violent men like Tom Ascol and Jared Longshore at Founders Ministries to expose the lies of critical race theory that have invaded the highest echelons of the SBC. Men of holy zeal who will wage war with a documentary one day and call a paramedic to fear God the next. That’s how, like Phinehas, you drive the spear of truth through the idolater. 

The church needs pastors who will call for repentance on the cultural hot-button issues of the day—from abortion to biblical sexual ethics—and not blink. It needs zealous men to chase the ERLC and TGC hustlers from our midst and not be nice about the whole damned thing. 

It needs men in the pew who’ll hear that message, get married, love their wives, lead in family worship, and heed God’s command to fill the earth with godly offspring. It needs men who will violently pursue godliness, ensure a righteous education for their children, and work hard as providers in dangerous professions; it needs women who embrace their role in this world domination tour as the mothers of future warriors.  

What the world needs is violent men. 

To protect his community, to live out the masculine role, a man must have a reputation for violence. He must be a troublemaker. — Leon Podles

May God raise up Spirit-drunk troublemakers willing to raise a holy ruckus in the name of High King Jesus. May their words cut us, offend us, and send us straight to Christ.  


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30 thoughts on “Why the Church Desperately Needs Violent Men”

  1. This sounds like ‘authentic manhood’. Christian men are going to have to stand up and quit being passive. May the Holy Spirit convict us of the need to follow Christ’s example. PTL.

  2. yep… that’s spot on. Really good, Eric. May the Spirit of holy violence in the cause of Christ’s crown and covenant be upon on us all in full measure, thoroughly displacing all fear of anything or anyone but God alone. For the cause of God and truth!! Amen.

    • Chip,

      Thanks for the feedback, glad you found it helpful.

      As I’ve followed some of the response to the article on Facebook, it’s interesting that the word “violent” has been the point of contention, and predominantly among men. I did have a short deliberation with myself about whether or not to use the word, and despite criticisms, I was not at all trying to suck anyone in with a catchy, “click-bait” title. The reason I decided to stick with “violent” to describe men is because that’s the exact word Jesus uses in Matthew 11:12. It’s obvious that the word is offensive and/or off-putting to us, but it is the word Jesus chose to describe the kind of person who would enter the kingdom.

      A couple comments on this. First, Jesus is often provocative. He says things that ruffle our feathers, offend us, and make us think more deeply about truth and our own hearts. In being offended, He is exposing our hearts. He could have chosen language that would be less offensive, but He didn’t. If I’m simply quoting Jesus, I don’t have any problem being provocative.

      Second, I’m fascinated by how many men I’ve had tell me that “violence” isn’t the right word to describe men. To which I want to say, “Tell that to Jesus. It’s the word he used.” I think we have a real problem when we are reluctant to use the exact language Christ used. Christ knew that domestic violence was real. He knew that men’s natural proclivity for danger and violence could be extremely destructive when not properly channeled. And yet in His infinite wisdom He decided to use that word. And to the extent the article has caused each of us (myself included) to ask what it means to be a biblically violent man, I’m grateful to God for that.



      • Being violent is also the reason that God gives for destroying the entire population of the earth in the flood (Gen. 6:11; 13) – just as long as we’re clinging to individual uses of words we like and not acknowledging that words have different meanings based on context. In our context today, violence is obviously a negative word, and there’s no reason to insist on using it when it will inevitably make any message more controversial and harder to receive than it needs to be. This is not a case of people arguing with the truth because the truth is hard to hear; it’s a case of you making your message hard to swallow for either popularity’s or ignorance’s sake.

        • Thanks for commenting. I’ve responded to some of that in a follow up article, here: https://ericconn.com/violent-men-2/

          I don’t have now, nor will I have, a problem quoting Jesus verbatim. My aim will never be to soften the words of Christ. As I said in the follow up article, it’s a pretty audacious claim that the word of God needs to be made more palatable simply because we’ve gone soft. When the word of God doesn’t line up with our culture, it is we, not His Word, that needs to change. I’ll keep saying “violent men” because Jesus said, and I quote, “violent men.”

  3. Thanks so much for this massive dollop of sanity for the demented U.K. Church.

    If I may, I released a reasonably violent book earlier this summer called “Body Zero – Radical Preparation for the Return of Christ”. Copies can be bought here: http://www.bodyzerobook.com

    Praise God for the Spirit-drunk wherewithal and willingness to actually follow the discipleship of Christ. The commonplace, faulty locations that U.K. ‘discipleship’ has taken us surely points to its rotten roots.


    Nick Franks

  4. Oh hello, it is me strongk man, here to fight off all the not-strongk mans, what with their soy lattes (the Bible never ONCE condones soy anything), their Greek yogurts, and especially their beta-male hermeneutics that affirm – heresy upon heresy – the difficulty of applying moral exemplars across cultures, time, and space. Also, just to reiterate, F*** SOY LATTES.

    • You can say all you want about Soy Lattes, but taking shots at Greek yogurt? That crosses the line. As long as it’s key lime, keep the Greek yogurt coming.

  5. I agree with the fundamentals of what the author was saying. The Kingdom of heaven is taken by violent men in a violent battle-field where this world collides with the Kigdom. The Kingdom of God is a warrior Kingdom and we walk through battle-fields not playgrounds. Men who are willing to die for the cause are spiritually violent men. To be imprisoned, to suffer the loss of all things as they carry forth the banner of truth. And so in that spirit I have to say that I disagree entirely that there is either a need for a reform or a coming reform.

    Maybe if I spoke to the author we could discuss what he means by the word “reform.” Perhaps we would be closer than I think. Yet, if it is reform in the classic sense of the word then I disagree entirely. Revolution is closer to what is coming to what we know as the “church.” And the revolution will take place in the middle of the greatest persecution ever seen. And the genuine children of God shall rise to the occasion. Like their martyr brothers and sisters before them they will stand in that evil day as a witness to all the world and then the end shall come.

    • Too long. Regroup. Condense yours thoughts and write densely.
      You’ve many good, strong points. Keep it to 3 or 4.
      Speak the problem(you did). Offer your solutions. Move on to the next level (part 2?)
      Thanks for the opportunity.

  6. Too long. Regroup. Condense yours thoughts and write densely.
    You’ve many good, strong points. Keep it to 3 or 4.
    Speak the problem(you did). Offer your solutions. Move on to the next level (part 2?)
    Thanks for the opportunity.

  7. I really like your articles and I am encouraged by them, but what version of the bible do you have/use? I was looking up some of the verses you referenced and wasn’t even coming close to getting the same understanding out of it that you were. Either it’s the difference in versions or maybe you are paraphrasing?

  8. Hello Brother!

    Just read this article and finally saw someone else outside of a close group of friends that feel as I do!

    I’m a husband, father, paramedic, hunter, and street Preacher. I’ve been heart broken for years over the emasculation of the American churches. I’ve had many occasions that I am preaching on a street corner, only to have a well meaning “Christian man” come and tell me that I am chasing people away from God…as if I could even do that!

    So…this article was very refreshing and hope giving. Thank you!

  9. Someone once tried to tell me that Christ didn’t actually hit someone with the whip. My response was do you think a bunch of anti-Christ’s would politely walk away from all their money being scattered without getting whacked and whacked hard at least a few times?

    The one church I knew that had a man’s man, a rough, tough cowboy, for a preacher didn’t have any problem bringing good men into the congregation.

    Most all churches, Christian colleges and preaching schools have anti-Christ’s well embedded into or actually running (controlling) those institutions. The same is true for most Christian radio stations. It is going to take some real men to clean house.

    If your congregation today could meet next Sunday with your same congregation from say 1950, likely you would both disfellowship each other. Who changed? Who would be more scriptural?

    In the Hebrew and Greek the scripture is in full agreement. There is only one Gospel and it is not Politically Correct.

  10. I appreciate you using the word violence. God commands Israel to do some pretty bloody things, so there has to be a thing as righteous violence. Unfortunately, I had to hear from Jordan Peterson (and John Lovell) and not the church that being dangerous can be a good thing. Looking forward to your new book titled The Theology of Violence haha.


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